I looked through your posts and noticed you mentioned asexuality. I think I might be asexual due to a recent heartbreak, can that happen? I just don't feel interested in sex or sexual activities and I don't look at people anymore and get turned on by their looks. my latest ex who broke my heart was very sexual and I enjoyed it and was always very aroused by him. But now, it's literally nothing...
Hey, thanks for reading my blog! :)
Honestly, heartbreak wreaks so much more havoc on our bodies than we really want to acknowledge. It’s natural to feel that way when you have broken up with someone who you loved + had a sexual connection with. Admittedly, it was a heartbreak and coming away from a relationship that triggered my sexual re-evaluation and identification, but I am not so sure if it can trigger a sexuality change.
Give yourself time; I took a year off dating before I started seeing Alex and it really gave me time to think about who I am and what I want. To me, and I am not a professional in any way, it just sounds as though you have been gravely hurt, and need to tend to yourself for a while before you can open yourself to another.
Asexuality isn’t something that comes and goes, just give yourself time, treat yo’self + see what happens. It’s not a bad thing to have realised the asexuality in yourself, but I think it’s a little too soon to call it that just now :) ♥
That places like Wacky Shack have no problem selling bazillions of different erect penis shaped novelties, but consider vaginas to be ‘too explicit’ to display. How are penises/breasts/bottoms ‘less’ explicit?