Myth: Feminists are man haters. Fact: Feminists are fighting for gender equality. They are fighting for both men and women to be seen as equal in the eyes of the law and in the eyes of society. Some women may hate men. Some of them may be feminists. Some of them may not be. Most feminists do not hate men.
Myth: Being feminine is unfeminist. Fact: You can wear make-up, shave, and wear a bra and still be a feminist. Or you can do none of those things. That’s the whole point of feminism. It’s your choice. No one should be telling you what is and isn’t socially acceptable for your gender.
Myth: Feminists all hold the exact same beliefs. Fact: Outside of the overall belief of gender equality, feminists can vary quite a bit on their thoughts and opinions.
Myth: Only women can be feminists. Fact: Anyone can be a feminist.
Whenever I listent to CocoRosie I am reminded of you. I believe its mostly because they're weird and it's hard for people on the outside of things to relate them you so people end up hating on something they don't understand. So when I see people sending you hate because of your armpit hair, nude photos, or things you say its really because they don't understand you or the person you are at all. I think you are a very splendid person and as weird as you are it's quite refreshing and lovely.
Hi, I'm sorry to bring up such a subject I just want a bit of help. I was raped about a year ago, loads of rumours went around about me saying it wasn't rape was just memaking it up so my boyfriend at the time didn't think I cheated on him. My boyfriend broke up with me went round and told people I admtted to him that i cheated. They then tried to contact the person who raped me, and spoke to him about it. my rapists has now got back in contact some how and is texting me. what do I do?
Oh dear, that sounds like a bit of a mess. I am so sorry this has happened to you, and that people are butting their stupid noses in your business.
Can I just let it be known; I fucking abhor people who feel it’s in any way their right (if they’re not directly involved) to comment on a situation like rape and draw their own conclusion.
Can you press charges of any kind to your rapist? If not, tell get a new phone, a new number, block them on every social networking site you can; do not give them a way to contact you. It’s horrifying that they think after what they’ve done to you, they have some kind of right to talk to you? What planet are they on?
I’m always ready to lend an ear, should you need someone to talk to. You’re not alone ♥
That's the thing. Some people might see what you post and misinterpret you as a person based on what you post here (without knowing you). Just saying this because a person i know was bullied for the same reason, to near suicide (a blog with semi nude photos of themselves for an art project) and they also did a porn video and once it's on the internet it can end up on sites that you may not want it to end up on. Do you ever worry that your images may end up on one of those sites?
Well, you see, that’s their problem. I get a lot of people who think that they know me completely based on what I post on the internet, and I can’t help but laugh.
I have been posting naked photos on the internet since I was legal to; I like being naked, that’s all there is to it. I’m used to people being threatened/insecure about their own bodies + taking it out on me; I’m a big elf, I can deal. My images have been stolen, faked and used for stuff without my permission; even on TV- I’ve come to just get used to it.
Well, now, you see; the reason why I won’t shoot pornographic video content is because I don’t want that happening to me.
In regards to previous questions was just asking as some parents would go ape if their kids posted nude pics and the like. And i wasn't supporting bullying, i was saying in regards to bullying some things that people post can egg bullies on and give them ammo, you know what i mean? Death threats are not on. To 'tahlalaliaaa' I wasn't suporting bullying ehhh.
Yeah, I’m lucky I got my parents + not ‘some’ parents.
Again, I do not see how someone comfortable in their own sexuality, posting on their own blog is means for ‘egging’ someone on. The only blame that can be placed here is on the people who are harassing me; not because I post pictures of my natural state.
Also in regards to your blog post on bullying do you think that if you weren't so open with details on your sex life and nude photos of yourself people would not bully you or harass you??? Just saying :s
That post was talking about something entirely different, and no, my images are not to blame; it’s the people who think it’s constructive to anonymously harass me who are to blame.
I don’t think anyone can justify death threats because they were offended by a naked photo.
What do your parents think of you posting nude photos, breast and photos of your twat online? And also details of your sexlife? Do you think people may view you as slutty because of this?
My parents could care less. They’re aware I’m my own person + will do what I want. I have had nothing but support from them in my endeavours (except when I got my tongue split. My mum FLIPPED OUT about that, haha). They have always been amazingly open minded; being naked is not such a huge biggie people make it out to be.
Who cares if some stunted, sex challenged douchebag thinks nudity/comfort in my sexuality (and a long term relationship) makes me promiscuous? It’s just one menial opinion; it doesn’t define me at all.
I wish I could be another of your Perth friends :(. Did you enjoy your last stay in Perth?
Aw! The trouble with Perth friends, is you live in a city that is in the middle of fucking nowhere D: I’m just joshin’, come off anon + say hallo :3
Honestly? Not particularly. I hung around some nice people, but for the most part I was just really freaked out that it was, like, Stepford Wives ran the place. Perth is weirdly clean/devoid of street art- well, the places I went to were. Even the ‘alt’ district was kind of like a regular high street in Melbourne, hahaha.
Sorry Perth; I think I’m slightly biased because the night I escaped back to Adelaide was one of the worst ever, and I irrationally blame Perth, hahaha.
Do you find anal comfortable, or even enjoyable? My boyfriend loves it, and I do it with him for his sake, but are there ways I can make it more enjoyable for me? Any tips? :$
Hullo dear :)
For me, butt play has always been fun. I’m really lucky to have a partner so openly communicative, and respectful of me + my boundaries; he’s really helped me recover from what was a straight out hatred (from a terrible first experience) to really enjoying something I never thought I would have. But it really is different for everyone; some people just never really take to anal, and that’s perfectly okay!
Never do anything for your partners sake! Always, always discuss with them anything that is uncomfortable/painful! Most of the time, they don’t know until you tell them!
I find anal is one of those things people really rush into. I know some think a couple days of prodding around the area with a curious finger is enough warming up to go to a straight out booty pounding, but that is just not the case at all.
It all comes down to communication; tell them you wish to make this something pleasurable for the both of you. Go sex toy shopping together + pick out a super slim plug or butt vibe + the appropriate lube. Some people don’t like the feeling of the in-and-out of anal, so plugs are perfect for that, but some people don’t mind it so much, where a vibrating toy would work well for this instance. Even a vibrating bullet to stimulate the area is a nice transition, while you’re still getting used to things.
A lot of the stress from anal comes from the worry of, erm, pooping. But if you make sure you go to the toilet before hand, have a shower or even use an enema (which can be bought at most sex shops)- it takes all of that stress away. Feeling relaxed is the key to enjoying yourself.
When you’re ready to play, be relaxed. Start with a massage and get him to slowly incorporate your bottom area, before GENTLY introducing the toy. My friend raised an excellent point in that having an orgasm helps relax you too, haha. You must be sure to tell your boyfriend what is and isn’t good; again, they’re not going to know unless you say so. Take it easy, you don’t need to fit the whole thing straight away; just get used to the feeling.
Stay as long as you want in Toy Country; only you’re going to know when you’re ready to move to the next level. If your lad just doesn’t want to be patient, maybe they should think about how they’d like it if you just jammed a digit into their butt randomly :P Remember, it’s OKAY not to like these things! Different things work for different people, but you’re only going to know if you give it a crack :)
I really hope this helps; good luck + happy butt play! Hahaha :)